How Do Oracle and Tarot Cards Work?

Tarot and Oracle cards are powerful tools for insight, guidance, and self-reflection. But how do they actually work?

Tarot Cards: A Structured System for Guidance

A tarot deck is set up much like a standard deck of playing cards, with each card holding a specific meaning. There are two main types of tarot cards:

Minor Arcana – These cards represent everyday challenges and emotions:

• Cups = Emotions & Relationships

• Pentacles = Physical & Financial Aspects

• Swords = Intellect & Decision-Making

• Wands = Creativity & Communication

Major Arcana – These are the 21 powerful cards in the deck that represent life-changing events, transformation, and spiritual lessons.

The most misunderstood tarot card?
The Death card.

Many fear it, but its actual meaning is rebirth, transformation, and endings that lead to new beginnings—not literal death.

A skilled tarot reader uses intuition and knowledge of these meanings to interpret how the cards apply to the seeker’s life.

Oracle Cards: A Freeform Intuitive Tool

Unlike tarot, oracle cards are more open to interpretation. They offer gentle guidance, clarity, and direction, helping to:
✔ Gain insight into personal struggles
✔ Focus the mind and remove distractions
✔ Guide the seeker when they’re unsure what they need from a reading

Personally, I use my Oracle cards for myself when I’m struggling with a decision or need clarity. I also use them in client readings when a seeker doesn’t know what they need clarity on, allowing the cards to provide direction and focus.

Whether you’re drawn to tarot for structured insights or oracle cards for intuitive reflection, both can be powerful tools for spiritual growth.

Tarot and Oracle cards can unlock clarity, guidance, and self-discovery—whether for yourself or through a professional reading. If you're curious about how these readings can help you, let’s connect! Want to book a personalized card reading? I offer both Oracle and Medium readings to help answer your questions and guide you on your path. Reach out today to schedule a session!

Signs Your Loved Ones Are Trying to Contact You

One of my favorite topics during readings is how spirits communicate with us. Signs from loved ones are everywhere—literally and figuratively! Spirits often engage with our senses to let us know they are near.

Have you ever experienced:

• A familiar scent that instantly reminds you of a loved one?

• An object with sentimental value appearing in an unexpected place?

• Vivid dreams where a passed loved one speaks to you?

  These are all common ways spirits reach out to let you know they’re still around.

Want to know something? Spirits just want to be acknowledged or remembered. So, the next time you sense their presence—whether through a random symbol, a familiar smell, or a comforting memory—say "Hi!" out loud!

Speak their name, tell them they are missed, still loved, or even if you’re upset with them.

When you do, they receive a jolt of happiness—a burst of energy that keeps their spirit thriving in the afterlife. These small moments of connection mean the world to them, just as they do to you.

Your loved ones are always near, and they find ways to send messages when you least expect it.

If you’re experiencing signs but need help understanding them, I’d love to connect with you.

Want to explore a deeper connection with the spirit world? Book a Medium Reading today and receive guidance from your loved ones.

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Choosing a Pendulum: Finding the Right Energy Match

When selecting a pendulum, the key factor is energy. While you can certainly choose one based on looks, it may not function the way you want if it doesn't resonate with you. In-person purchases are ideal because you can test them immediately, ensuring they respond to your energy.

However, if you're buying a pendulum online, things get trickier. Look for a retailer with a strong return policy in case the pendulum doesn't connect with you the way you expect.

How to Test a Pendulum in Person

When choosing a pendulum in-store, follow these steps to see if it's the right fit for you:

1️⃣ Hold the Pendulum Properly – My guides have told me that the best way is to hold it between your first and middle finger, resting between the middle knuckles. This technique is especially helpful for beginners.

2️⃣ Position It Over Your Palm – Hold the pendulum over the center of your other hand’s palm to test the energy exchange.

3️⃣ Ask a Simple Question – "Do you want to belong to me?" Stay as still as possible and observe its movement.

✔ If the pendulum moves on its own, even slightly, it has potential.
✔ If it swings at least an inch, it's a strong match for you.
✖ If it doesn’t move or only quivers, it may not work as well for you.

For beginners, I highly recommend testing pendulums in-store before purchasing.

Buying a Pendulum Online? Use Your Current One to Help!

If you already own a pendulum that resonates with you, you can use it to guide your online purchase. Try this method:

🔹 Find a picture of the pendulum you’re considering buying on your phone or computer.
🔹 Hold your current pendulum and ask it the following questions:
✔ Is this pendulum useful to me?
✔ Will it work well for my energy?
✔ Should I buy it?

This technique isn't just for pendulums—it can actually work for any online purchase! Your pendulum can help you determine whether an item is a good fit for your energy before you buy it.

Final Thoughts

Your pendulum is a deeply personal tool, and choosing the right one makes all the difference in your spiritual work. Trust your energy and let your intuition guide you in selecting one that will truly resonate with you.

Have you ever tested a pendulum before buying it? I’d love to hear about your experience!

What Triggered My Realization That I Was a Medium?

People often ask me, “What was the moment that made you realize you were a Medium?”

The truth is, there wasn’t just one defining moment. It was more of a gradual buildup—a battle between denial, headaches, fear, and eventually, acceptance. Everything changed when I helped a spirit cross over.

A Memory That Stood Out

Looking back, this question triggered a long-forgotten memory. It was during a family vacation to Florida—we were visiting my family before heading to Universal Studios. I remember standing in my Nana’s bookstore, deep in conversation with my dad, when suddenly, I heard voices.

I turned my head, expecting to see someone there, but there was no one. At that exact moment, my dad, Nana, and uncle all looked in the same direction where I had heard the voices.

That was the moment I started talking openly about my experiences—at least with my dad.

It turned out that the spirit I heard was just visiting, and my father’s side of the family could hear them too! I remember being so angry with my dad because I had spent years feeling like I was crazy. Why didn’t he tell me? Why did I feel so alone in my experiences?

Keeping It Quiet in the '70s and '80s

The answer? Fear.

People like me—those who were gifted—learned to keep it under wraps during the '70s and '80s. Back then, the world was very black and white, with little acceptance for anything gray or outside of the "normal." There were real fears that being open about seeing or hearing spirits could land someone in a psychiatric ward.

My dad and I had many conversations after that—about the spirit world, what was real, what wasn’t, and why we had stayed quiet for so long

The Turning Point: Paranormal Investigations

Then something happened that made me realize my gifts had a purpose.

A show called TAPS aired on TV—a ghost-hunting show that wasn’t staged. These weren’t actors; they were real people, doing real investigations, providing a real service.

I watched every episode, soaking it all in. Some shows I dismissed after a few episodes when it was clear they weren’t authentic. And, oh, I got angry at Zach from Ghost Adventures for provoking spirits instead of respecting them. But still, I watched until the show’s energy went dark.

That’s when it hit me: There was a real use for what I could do.

It took a long time, but I finally found a ghost-hunting group in my area—Erie Shores Paranormal. Becoming a Paranormal Investigator was the first time I openly talked to strangers about my abilities. It was with them that I crossed over my first spirit. That experience solidified what I had always known deep down—I was a Medium.

Want to Ask Me a Question?

If you have any questions about Mediumship, Psychic Readings, Oracle Cards, Paranormal Investigations, or anything spiritual, feel free to reach out!

📧 Send an email or text—I’d love to hear from you!

Psychic vs. Medium Explained

What are the differences?

If you’ve ever wondered about the differences between a Psychic, Medium, and Psychic Medium? Well, you’re not alone. Many people ask:

• What does a Psychic do?

• What is a Medium?

• Are Medium readings real?

• Can someone be both a Psychic and a Medium?

Let’s break it all down so you can understand what to expect when booking a reading.

Are Medium Readings Real?

This is a very personal question, and the answer depends on your own beliefs.

I come from a family of both believers and skeptics, so I completely understand both perspectives. I know Medium Readings are real because I personally experienced them. However, what you believe depends on:

• Personal experiences with the spiritual world.

• Religious or cultural beliefs about the afterlife.

• Skepticism based on science or lack of proof.

The truth? It’s entirely up to you. Whether you believe it or not, you always have the right to decide what feels right for you.

What is a Psychic Medium?

Quick answer: I am! LOL. A Psychic Medium combines both psychic abilities and mediumship in a reading. Here’s the difference:

• Psychic Reading = Focuses on your life, future paths, and personal energy.

• Medium Reading = Connects with spirits, ancestors, and energies from the other side.

A Medium has the ability to communicate with "the other side." They may sense, see, or hear spirits that are attached to a person or space. While some readers rely on these tools for clarity, many Mediums don’t need them at all. Their connection to spirits is strong enough without external aid.

Many spiritual tools can be used in readings, such as:
🔮 Tarot & Oracle Cards
📿 Pendulums
🪞 Mirrors
🔹 Crystals
☕ Tea Leaves
💀 Bones and more!

What Does a Psychic Do?

A Psychic taps into energy and intuition to provide insight into life paths, relationships, career decisions, and personal growth.

Psychic Readings focus on:

• Future possibilities (not fixed predictions).

• Life guidance based on energy patterns.

• Insights into challenges and overlooked opportunities.

Some Psychic Readers don’t communicate with spirits at all. Instead, they use intuition and tools like tarot cards, numerology, or astrology to interpret what’s happening in your life.

What Does a Medium Do?

A Medium is someone who communicates with spirits. Their abilities are not about predicting the future but about delivering messages, sensing energies, and providing guidance from the spirit world.

Medium Readings focus on:

• Connecting with loved ones who have passed.

• Spiritual messages, warnings, or guidance.

• Energy clearings or aura readings.

• Chakra assessments and balancing.

Some Mediums also use tarot cards or tools, but they aren’t required for their work.

What Does a Psychic Medium Do?

A Psychic Medium—like me—does both! This means I can connect with spirits AND provide intuitive guidance about your life.

Best of both worlds! You can:

• Ask about your future path.

• Receive messages from loved ones.

• Gain insight into your energy, aura, and spirit guides.

Not comfortable with spirit messages? No problem! If you prefer only a psychic reading, just let me know. You’re always in control of the type of reading you receive.

Your Future is NOT Set in Stone

One important thing to remember:
A reading is a guide, NOT a guarantee.

Why? Because life is full of choices, and you have free will.

A reader can only tell you the options available to you, but the decisions you make shape your future.

Personally, I love being wrong!

If I predict a negative situation and you make a choice to avoid it, I consider that a win!

If someone tells me, "Hey, you were wrong! That never happened!" my response is always:

"Congratulations! That means you made the right choice for YOU!"

Final Thoughts: Choosing the Right Reading for You

Whether you’re looking for:
✔ A psychic reading to gain insight into your life.
✔ A mediumship reading to connect with a loved one.
✔ Or both!

Understanding the differences between Psychics, Mediums, and Psychic Mediums helps you find the right type of reader for your journey.

If you’re ready for a session, I’d love to connect with you!

Disclaimer: All articles are the opinion of Tammy from Toledo and are based on her personal experiences as a psychic medium.

Where to Get a Reading: Exploring Your Options

When it comes to psychic or medium readings, there are many options to choose from, both online and in person. But with so many readers and mediums offering services, one important question remains: How accurate are they?

The truth is, the method of your reading—whether in person, online, or otherwise—can influence the experience and connection. Here’s a breakdown of the different ways you can get a reading and what to expect from each.

1. In-Person Readings

In-person readings provide the clearest and most accurate experience. When you sit face-to-face with a medium or psychic, they can connect directly with your energy and aura, allowing for an in-depth and personal session. This method often yields the highest level of accuracy and is ideal for those seeking a deep connection and clarity.

Best For:

• Those seeking the most personal and detailed insights.

• Individuals open to direct energy interaction.

2. Online Readings via Video Chat

Online video chat readings (on platforms like Zoom, Google Meet, or Facebook Messenger) are the next best thing to an in-person session. Video allows the reader to see your energy and interact dynamically, making it easier to establish a connection. This method is both convenient and highly accurate, especially for Seekers who can’t meet in person.

Best For:

• Those who value convenience but still want a strong connection.

• Seekers comfortable with technology.

3. Phone Readings

Phone readings can be slightly less accurate than in-person or video readings because the reader cannot see your energy or aura. However, they remain a valuable option, particularly if you’ve previously connected with the medium in person. Past interactions help establish a strong energetic link, ensuring a smooth and informative session.

Best For:

• Individuals who have worked with the medium before.

• Seekers looking for quick and easy access to guidance.

4. Email Questions

Email readings, especially without prior connection, are typically cold readings. These rely on the reader’s intuition and spiritual knowledge to provide answers. While not as personal or accurate as other methods, email readings can still offer helpful insights, especially for straightforward questions.

Best For:

• Quick answers to specific questions.

• Individuals new to mediumship services.

5. Cold Readings

Cold readings occur when the reader and Seeker have never interacted before. These are common in group or party settings, as well as live readings on platforms like TikTok or Instagram. In these cases, the medium relies entirely on their spiritual channel and intuition to identify messages coming through. While these readings can be fascinating and insightful, they are often general in nature due to the lack of direct connection.

Best For:

• Group gatherings or events.

• Live interactions for quick, general insights.

Choosing the Right Reading for You

Ultimately, the best reading option depends on your preferences, availability, and comfort level. Each method has its strengths and unique offerings, but the most important factor is finding a trusted and experienced reader who resonates with you.

Disclaimer: All articles are the opinion of Tammy from Toledo and are based on her personal experiences as a psychic medium.

What to Expect from a Reading with Tammy from Toledo

Are you curious about what happens during a session with me?

As a psychic medium, my readings are unique, personal, and focused entirely on your spiritual needs. Whether you’re seeking connection with loved ones, guidance from your guardians, or insight into your life’s path, I aim to provide clarity and understanding. Here's what you can expect when you sit at my table.

Step 1: Greeting and Introduction

When we begin, you’ll notice that I take a moment to focus on the energy around you. My gaze might seem fixed over your shoulders—this is intentional. I’m looking for the spirits that may have joined us. Matriarchs typically appear to my right, and patriarchs to my left. This helps me determine which side of your family they’re from and whether they have messages to share.

Step 2: Connecting with Spirits

If there are spirits present, I’ll share what they have to say. Their messages might range from words of comfort to specific concerns or guidance. One topic that frequently comes up? Driving habits!

If I don’t sense spirits around, don’t worry—this doesn’t mean you’re alone. I’ll ask your guardians to come forward. Guardians often share insights about your current challenges, concerns, or areas where they feel you need support.

Step 3: Psychic Reading

If neither spirits nor guardians have messages to deliver, I’ll shift the focus to you. In these cases, I provide a psychic reading that is all about your energy, life choices, and current path. I might also use Oracle cards if I feel they’re needed. Rest assured, no one leaves my table without something meaningful to take away.

Step 4: Pendulum Sessions

For specific questions, we may incorporate a pendulum session. I control the pendulum, and you ask your questions—either aloud or, if we’ve established a strong connection, in your mind. The pendulum will respond with Yes/No/Maybe answers. Occasionally, I’ll receive clarifying messages from your guardians during this part of the session.

Who I Am as a Reader

I approach my readings with an open heart, humility, and a genuine desire to help. Unlike some, I don’t shy away from being “wrong.” Why? Because life is all about choices. I might see potential outcomes, but your decisions ultimately shape your journey. If you don’t like the path I describe, you have the power to change it. My role is to offer insight, not dictate your future. It’s your life, your journey—I’m just here to help illuminate the road ahead.

Ready To Start?

If you’re ready to gain clarity, connect with loved ones, or explore the guidance waiting for you, I’d be honored to assist you. Reach out today to request your reading and take the first step on your journey toward insight and understanding.

Contact me, Tammy, and let’s uncover the messages meant just for you.

Disclaimer: All articles are the opinion of Tammy from Toledo and are based on her personal experiences as a psychic medium.